Community, Initiatives and Resources
Community of Professionals on the Same Path
At We Decide, we understand that it takes a village. That’s why we’ve established a growing network of professionals who share the same vision: making separation more affordable, compassionate, and effective through alternative dispute resolution. Whether you’re a lawyer, mediator, financial expert, or justice worker, you don’t have to navigate this path alone.
📘 Join the Divorce Dollars Facebook Group to share resources and ideas.
💼 Follow me on LinkedIn for networking, collaboration, and knowledge sharing, and sign up for the Divorce Dollars & Sense newsletter.
📲 Stay connected through our social media channels for updates and community insights.
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💜 Domestic Partner Violence Intervention & Resources Initiative
We recognize that separation is not always safe or simple.
✨ You Are Not Alone
This initiative is dedicated to supporting individuals facing domestic partner violence, providing access to legal aid, financial consulting, emergency housing, counseling, and safety planning resources. Beyond direct support, it also creates opportunities for lawyers, mediators, and financial professionals to engage through our global directory, utilizing alternative dispute resolution methods when applicable. Together, we’re building a movement to increase awareness, expand resources, and ensure no one has to face partner violence alone, effectively addressing the issue of divorce dollars in the process.
💻 Weekly Webinars for Professionals
Join me Live on Wednesdays at 11am!.— An interactive and engaging dive into practical tools, emerging issues, and real-world strategies related to alternative dispute resolution that enhance your skills and professional practice. These sessions provide a safe, collaborative space to explore new approaches, learn from peers, and strengthen your expertise in family financial resolution. Together, we can transform how families experience separation and create better outcomes for everyone.
Meet the Host
I’m Wanda Butler, founder of We Decide and creator of the Divorce Dollars & Sense Toolkit. My own journey through separation, survival, and rebuilding taught me how overwhelming and isolating this process can feel. That’s why I’ve dedicated more than a decade to creating trauma-informed, practical tools that help people move forward with clarity, dignity, and hope.
Beyond my personal story, I spent over a decade helping couples to navigate the financial and property issues of separation. I’ve built courses, resources, and advocacy initiatives that support individuals, families, and professionals in navigating the complex realities of separation and divorce. I’m recognized as a thought leader and change-maker in transforming how family conflict is approached, helping shift the focus from adversarial battles to healing, financial stability, and lasting solutions.
Through We Decide, I bring together financial literacy, education, and compassionate solutions so that no one has to walk this path alone.